Hello everybody,

I just received sad news: one of my very nice neighbors, a 40-something man with stage 4 prostate cancer, died alone in his apartment last week while I was in the hospital. We'd talked a few times checking our postal mail at the community mailboxes. I cannot recall his name now but he was a well-dressed, well-groomed man that had a chemo pump installed on him much like an insulin pump).

That news reminded me of my own mortality and how after two heart attacks, two pulmonary embolisms, and a deep vein thrombosis, the law of probability isn't on my side anymore.

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Hello Sean!

28 Mar 25 18:39, you wrote to all:

I just received sad news: one of my very nice neighbors, a
40-something man with stage 4 prostate cancer, died alone in his
apartment last week while I was in the hospital. We'd talked a few
times checking our postal mail at the community mailboxes. I cannot
recall his name now but he was a well-dressed, well-groomed man that
had a chemo pump installed on him much like an insulin pump).

That news reminded me of my own mortality and how after two heart
attacks, two pulmonary embolisms, and a deep vein thrombosis, the law
of probability isn't on my side anymore.

My mom had a heart attach recently and it reminded me that I am also a survivor. It was a scary time for us. But she is going strong at 86 :)

TheCivvie


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I just received sad news: one of my very nice neighbors, a 40-something man with stage 4 prostate cancer, died alone in his apartment last week while I was in the hospital. We'd talked a few times checking our postal mail at the community mailboxes. I cannot recall his name now but he was a well-dressed, well-groomed man that had a chemo pump installed on him much like an insulin pump).

Ouch, that is young!


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Sean Dennis wrote to All <=-

That news reminded me of my own mortality and how after two heart
attacks, two pulmonary embolisms, and a deep vein thrombosis, the law
of probability isn't on my side anymore.

Sorry to hear this, I know what you mean. I dated a woman in college and
we remained friends, occasionally running into each other, sharing jokes
on Facebook, and meeting up every so often. We shared a similar sense of
humor, I knew if no one else would get she joke or reference, she would.
I pinged her on Facebook to get lunch on her birthday and found out
she'd passed away alone in her house the month before. No signs of foul
play, no signs of self-harm - just passed away at 55.

My daughter is increasingly worried because my wife and I are older than
all of her friend's parents. It's especially worrying to look forward to
how old we'll be when we likely pass away, then factor in how old our
kids will be. Not old enough.

My 15 year old is looking at how much effort we put into supporting my
mother, who we put into a memory care facility - and thinking she'll be
in mid career when we'll be needing more help.

That's a level of shit a teenaged kid shouldn't have to deal with.

Time to get healthier. My wife went on Ozempic and lost 30 pounds, wants
to lose another 30 by the time she turns 60 this year. I'd better get on
it or we'll be like those TV sitcoms with the overweight funny dad and
the hot wife... :)










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Hello Kurt!

29 Mar 25 10:56, you wrote to me:

she would. I pinged her on Facebook to get lunch on her birthday and
found out she'd passed away alone in her house the month before. No
signs of foul play, no signs of self-harm - just passed away at 55.

I'm sorry to hear that. I have a fear of just dropping dead by myself. I hope that doesn't happen to me.

My daughter is increasingly worried because my wife and I are older
than all of her friend's parents. It's especially worrying to look
forward to how old we'll be when we likely pass away, then factor in
how old our kids will be. Not old enough.

I haf a friend who was 21 and his dad was 83. That was 30+ years ago now.

Time to get healthier. My wife went on Ozempic and lost 30 pounds,
wants to lose another 30 by the time she turns 60 this year. I'd
better get on it or we'll be like those TV sitcoms with the overweight funny dad and the hot wife... :)

I took a GLP-1 suppressant and it permanently damaged my stomach (partial paralysis). Be careful.

Just get rid of processed foods and seed oils as much as possible. My mom, at 73, did that and started eating more meats, veggies, and healthy stuff and lost 60 pounds in four months. If she can do it, I can too.

Side note: I didn't think you were much older than me. I'm 52. I think that mostof us in Micronet are in the same general age group (give or take 5-10 years). I know that's a broad assumption but I've known most of you for several decades now.

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Hello Sean!

** On Saturday 29.03.25 - 15:39, Sean Dennis wrote to Kurt Weiske:

Just get rid of processed foods and seed oils as much as
possible. My mom, at 73, did that and started eating more
meats, veggies, and healthy stuff and lost 60 pounds in
four months. If she can do it, I can too.

Elimination of processed foods, and reduced portion sizes (aka
calories) is the key. I've gained a few pounds over winter
(going back for too many 2nds), but I am not interested in
getting heavier. This isn't my first weight loss rodeo either.
Had excellent results the first time years ago when I
gravitated towards a primarily plant-based eating plan and just
occassional chicken.

Side note: I didn't think you were much older than me.
I'm 52. I think that mostof us in Micronet are in the
same general age group (give or take 5-10 years). I know
that's a broad assumption but I've known most of you for
several decades now.

I'm a tad outside that age range. Sad to hear younger people
here have many more health issues than I do.

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Sean Dennis wrote to Kurt Weiske <=-

I took a GLP-1 suppressant and it permanently damaged my stomach
(partial paralysis). Be careful.

Yeah, they frighten me.

Just get rid of processed foods and seed oils as much as possible. My mom, at 73, did that and started eating more meats, veggies, and
healthy stuff and lost 60 pounds in four months. If she can do it, I
can too.

I can do it, my problem is discipline. I'm a stress/comfort eater. I've
shown good results in the past, it's just sticking with them.

Side note: I didn't think you were much older than me. I'm 52. I
think that mostof us in Micronet are in the same general age group
(give or take 5-10 years). I know that's a broad assumption but I've known most of you for several decades now.

59 here, my wife and I turn 60 this fall.

-- Sean

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Hello Kurt Weiske!

** On Monday 31.03.25 - 06:47, Kurt Weiske wrote to Sean Dennis:

I can do it, my problem is discipline. I'm a stress/comfort eater. I've
shown good results in the past, it's just sticking with them.

Try drinking more water *first* when the desire to eat arises.
Then deliberately pause for a while. You may even find the
compulsion to eat go away.

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Kurt Weiske wrote to Sean Dennis <=-

Yeah, they frighten me.

Yet Big Pharma continues to pimpthose drugs as if there's nothing wrong.

Just get rid of processed foods and seed oils as much as possible. My mom, at 73, did that and started eating more meats, veggies, and
healthy stuff and lost 60 pounds in four months. If she can do it, I
can too.

I can do it, my problem is discipline. I'm a stress/comfort eater.
I've shown good results in the past, it's just sticking with them.

Same here. My issues are I eat when I'm depressed, I have little
physical activity, and I am still struggling with my dentures. I
gained 40 pounds last year and it's to the point now that the SI
joints in my lower back are severely inflamed. I eat off-schedule
and that throws my diabetes into a tizzy.

59 here, my wife and I turn 60 this fall.

My mom told me at 21 that time would start going faster and she
wasn't kidding. I still "see" myself as 18 but my body keeps
reminding me of my reality. XD

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August Abolins wrote to Kurt Weiske <=-

Try drinking more water *first* when the desire to eat arises.
Then deliberately pause for a while. You may even find the
compulsion to eat go away.

I am trying intermittent fasting. It seems to help. The main problem is that I have
no schedule so I am trying to force myself to get up at 8 AM and get to bed before
midnight.

Doing that and eating better helps. I love my Instant Pot forcooking chicken.
Turns
it into a soft but not mushy food. Easier to eat. My dentures are proving to be very
difficult for me to deal with.

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Time to get healthier. My wife went on Ozempic and lost 30 pounds, wants

>to lose another 30 by the time she turns 60 this year. I'd better get on
>it or we'll be like those TV sitcoms with the overweight funny dad and
>the hot wife... :)

I'm a big fan of keeping yourself in shape without being a fanatic
about it. I grew up eating healthy foods but not avoiding much.
Be sensible rather than restrictive. Eat less of things that you
know are not as healthy for you. Moderation in all things.

I also have a more physical lifestyle than 99% of the people so
exercize is always a good thing too.

Don't use a scale to measure your body fat.. use a mirror..
Muscle weighs more than fat.

Both my parents lived into their 90's but had brothers and sisters
who died 30 or 40 years younger due to 'lifestyle', so I do think
it makes a big difference.

My doctor tells me that I would be considered to be in excellent
health - for someone 20 years younger than I am. (70)
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Elimination of processed foods, and reduced portion sizes (aka

>calories) is the key. I've gained a few pounds over winter
>(going back for too many 2nds), but I am not interested in
>getting heavier. This isn't my first weight loss rodeo either.
>Had excellent results the first time years ago when I
>gravitated towards a primarily plant-based eating plan and just
>occassional chicken.

I think the biggest problem a lot of people have is not serving
an exact amount of food for a meal.. no seconds allowed!

When I was spending winters with my mother, she tended to feed
me more than I serve myself at home so I'd gain as much as about
10 pounds over the winter, but then I'd lose it again once I was
back at my place, more active in summer and controling my own food.

BTW.. that extra 10 lbs still put me way down near the lower limit
of the recomended BMI numbers for my age and height. Most of the
time I am probably slightly below the minimum but those numbers
are just a guide anyways. As I mentioned, the best way to tell if
you need to lose weight or not is a mirror, not a scale. If you
have very much loose fat then you maybe should lose a little of it.
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Rob Mccart wrote to KURT WEISKE <=-

My doctor tells me that I would be considered to be in excellent
health - for someone 20 years younger than I am. (70)

Way to go!

I'm going to be retiring in the somewhat near future, want to be able to
enjoy my retirement without self-inflicted health issues hampering that
time.



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Rob Mccart wrote to KURT WEISKE <=-

I'm a big fan of keeping yourself in shape without being a fanatic
about it. I grew up eating healthy foods but not avoiding much.
Be sensible rather than restrictive. Eat less of things that you
know are not as healthy for you. Moderation in all things.

I couldn't agree more.

Don't use a scale to measure your body fat.. use a mirror..
Muscle weighs more than fat.

Yep! Learned that in the Army, believe it or not.

It's been said that the BMI scale is inaccurate: https://www.bodyvolume.com/post/why-bmi-is-outdated-and-inaccurate

My doctor tells me that I would be considered to be in excellent
health - for someone 20 years younger than I am. (70)

I'm trying to turn my health around so I can get to 70...

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Way to go!

I'm going to be retiring in the somewhat near future, want to be able to enjoy my retirement without self-inflicted health issues hampering that
time.

That is what I did a couple of years ago. I am still working part-time
and, overall, I am happy with the decision.

Mike


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I'm going to be retiring in the somewhat near future, want to be able to

>enjoy my retirement without self-inflicted health issues hampering that
>time.

Yes, a lot of people wait until they are too old and in bad shape to
retire and basically end up having worked their whole life just to
leave money to their family, if they managed to accumulate some.

I haven't worked for anyone else since I was 32. I planned to retire
fairly comfortably by age 55 but things happen. I quit a job I'd had
for 6 years expecting to work for the competition after an offer of
pay 50% higher than I was currently getting.. Long story short, I
had some time off between jobs and found I could make enough money
from investing to live on, so I figured I'd wait a while to go back
to full time work.. I never did.. I did some part time self employed
work and made enough that I could let my investments grow without
touching most of it.

It was a simple (cheap?) life but I liked it for the most part..
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Don't use a scale to measure your body fat.. use a mirror..
Muscle weighs more than fat.

Yep! Learned that in the Army, believe it or not.

That makes sense.. Different life there..

It's been said that the BMI scale is inaccurate:

They argue back and forth about that. I've seen the numbers be
obviously wrong for many people when you actually see them,
and it seems in recent years they have adjusted the allowed weight
higher, probably so not to insult all those overweight people..

I'm reminded of one old girlfriend who weighed about 165 lbs..
That sounds like a lot for a woman but no one would ever guess
her weight was that high and no one would ever say she looked
overweight. She was actually from the Netherlands and she used
to joke about her weight going up and down a bit and laughed
that it always drove her girlfriends nuts because the first
place she would gain weight was on her chest.. B)

My doctor tells me that I would be considered to be in excellent
health - for someone 20 years younger than I am. (70)

I'm trying to turn my health around so I can get to 70...

Good luck with that.. keep working on staying your healthiest self.
Plus, the better shape you are in, the more fun things you can do
all the time and especially as you get older..

And there are no guarantees.. Theoretically I should make it well
into my 90's but some health problems can hit healthy people and
cut their time short, so all I can do is try to stay my best self.

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